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By Clayton Max
Author of Infatuation Scripts

If you’ve ever wondered why some women get all the dates and others come up empty, we’re here to fill you in on a simple trick to get guys looking in your direction.

Let me start by asking you a quick question: Who says you need to wait for him to come over?

A lot of women overlook the fact that they can take an ACTIVE role in the attraction process, especially when it comes to showing signs of interest.

If you really like someone, there’s nothing wrong with meeting him halfway!

(Of course, you don’t want to make it TOO EASY for him, but a little effort on your part is OK!)

Sometimes, you don’t have to wait for a guy to be interested in you. Why not practice an attitude that says, “Come and talk to me!”?

For all you know, that guy you like just needs a little encouragement to get the ball rolling. Don’t bother with the ice princess routine if you’re into him; drop subtle hints to get his attention.

Here are a couple of ideas:

– Look at him! Don’t act like a freak and stare at the guy – a few, short quick glances his way works best (for best results, add a smile!).

– Be mindful of your facial expressions. Does your face tell guys you want them to talk to you, or is it keeping them away? A fun, playful expression on your face will increase your approachability.

Another way to get him interested is by purposely being in his “radar”. How? Well, by walking up to him and starting a conversation, silly!

This may sound like earth-shattering news to a lot of women out there, but quality guys appreciate a girl who makes just enough effort to be noticed.

And by “making just enough effort”, I mean going out of your way to talk to him – but keeping the chit-chat light and casual. Let him fill his side of the conversation.

Obviously you like him, so there’s no need to actually tell him that. Be friendly, high-energy and humorous.

The last part is especially important. Guys are likely to be interested in a girl who isn’t afraid to have a fun, light-hearted conversation and have a few laughs.

This is what’s known as FLIRTING. It doesn’t have to involve double entendres or directly telling a guy how hot he is. That approach is way too HEAVY for a guy, especially in the beginning.

Rather, it’s about being playful in a good-spirited way to let him know that you don’t take yourself seriously. Although you like him, don’t give him the impression that your objective is to make him like you.

You’re just in the moment, having fun with someone without pressuring him with any expectations. Remember, a needy vibe drives men away.

To really seal the deal, let me offer you one last bit of advice: look your best!

Don’t worry, I’m not asking you to look perfect. All I’m saying is that you should work with what you have.

In the long run, having a great personality and attitude towards life is what really counts. But let’s face it, the first stages of attraction take place on a VISUAL level.

So, take the time to show the world that you “have it together”. The fact that you actually care about looking your best bears a lot more weight than meeting stereotypical standards of beauty (i.e. looking like a Photoshopped magazine cover!).

Working out, eating right, and choosing clothes that accentuate your frame will help you as you approach guys. This is also important because on a subconscious level, it tells guys that you value yourself enough to be at your most fabulous.

Here’s a simple truth: It’s your life, so you don’t have to wait for something great to happen – make it happen! No one else is going to do it for you.

Quality guys are out there, and they’re not going to run out anytime soon. YOU have the power to become the woman that guys want to be around!

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The magic phrases that unleash a flood of emotions in men

By Clayton Max
Author of Infatuation Scripts

“Your body is away from me, but there is a window open from my heart to yours.”

– Rumi

Remember the last time you felt a powerful longing for that special someone?

Whether you’ve only known him for a while, or you’re in a long-term relationship with him…

…if he matters to you, being away from him is painful.

But how do you make him feel the SAME?

Suzanne, a preschool teacher from Sacramento, met Patrick through a mutual friend.

They went out a few times over the last few months, and they seem to be getting along fine. However, something told Suzanne that he’s not that into it as she is.

She shared, “I was always the one who texted him first. It would take him a couple of hours to reply, and it’d be like that the whole day.”

“Every time I’d try and reach out – like sending him a funny picture or video – I wouldn’t get much of a reaction out of him,” Suzanne added.

It was a bit frustrating for her because she really thought Patrick was a great guy, but didn’t feel like he missed Suzanne enough.

And it was mostly Suzanne who made the effort to plan things so they could go out again.

It got to a point where she started to think he was slipping away.

That was when she decided to do something about it.

“If I was going to lose him, I might as well try a few things to see if it would get him back,” Suzanne said.

After she made a few changes, it did make a difference.

Patrick started replying right away, and he was the one who texted first thing in the morning.

If he wasn’t sending Suzanne sweet messages throughout the day, he was making plans to see her.

And when they got together again, he finally told Suzanne what she wanted to hear:

“Hey, I really missed you.”

Are you doing enough?

For a lot of women, everything seems fine and dandy when they’re with their guy.

The tricky part is when they start spending time away from each other. There’s the risk of him drifting off and losing interest.

And the problem is that these women go about it the wrong way. They think that have to pull some attention-grabbing stunt like going on social media and playing the jealousy game.

Chances are he’s not going to fall for the “Look at me with these other guys on Facebook” trick.

It’s going to backfire and it won’t make him think about you more.

A better way is to give him hints and reminders that you’re someone worth thinking about 24/7.

With a little finesse, you can make him long for you like no other woman has.

Here are 7 Great Ways To Make A Man Miss You:

#1: A little info goes a long way

Oversharing is one of the biggest turn-offs for a guy. I can’t tell you how many times women have shot themselves in the foot with this one mistake!

This applies more to someone you’re just getting to know. And if you think he might be the The One, you’ll be tempted to open up to him.

I’ve noticed that women do this to strengthen their bond with a guy as quickly as possible.

It’s a big mistake though, because trying to rush things with a guy emotionally is not a good recipe for romance.

And trying to fast-track that connection with him is likely to freak him out.

Kevin, a lawyer from Florida, once told me, “Everything was going great with this girl Tiffany whom I asked out to dinner. But then she started talking about her exes. I nearly choked on my steak when she told me about…the things she used to do with them. I don’t know what her deal was, and the only reason I didn’t sneak out the bathroom window was because they didn’t have one!”

You’re probably not as explicit as Tiffany when it comes to personal details (I hope!), but you get the idea.

Avoid talking about the touchy, personal areas of your life for now. If ever you wander into that territory, don’t give detailed answers and change the subject.

There’s no need to fudge the facts, but you don’t need to beat him over the head with it, either.

There’s plenty of time for that stuff later on. For now, give him some room to wonder about what makes you tick!

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#2: Dress to kill

Of course, you want him to love you for who you are, and not just for what you look like.

If he only liked your body and nothing else, what kind of a relationship would that be?

But having said that, the way you present yourself STILL matters.

I don’t care if you’ve known the guy for 3 weeks or 3 decades. If you stop caring about your looks and all that other basic stuff, it sends the wrong message.

I’ll share a little secret with you – 99% of the men I know don’t want a supermodel for a partner.

They just need to know that she’s not going to trade her flattering outfits for a ratty shirt and sweatpants…

…stop going to the gym…

…or think hygiene is overrated.

I mean, even if someone like Brad Pitt dressed like a slob, you probably wouldn’t like him either, right?

(Ok, maybe that wasn’t the best example…but you know where I’m going with this.)

So, stay on top of your game. Choose the right wardrobe and makeup (as much or as little of it as you need) to underscore your femininity.

Let your clean, fresh appearance do the talking. Care about what you eat and burn those calories.

You don’t need to be perfect (because NO one is), and it’s not a prerequisite for making him miss you.

The point is to look good and more importantly, FEEL GOOD about yourself.

He’ll feel that confidence radiating from your whole body. And THAT’S what will keep him coming back for more.

#3: Hold your horses

As much as you want him to want you, you should always keep the long game in mind.

As we talked about earlier, a little intrigue is healthy in a relationship.

It makes him want to pursue you, and put in the work to win you over.

Men absolutely love a woman who’s up for a challenge. There’s a lot at stake when it comes to dating, but you still need to make it a FUN game for him.

Don’t give him what he wants all the time, and don’t smother him with sweetness.

Maybe on some days you’re extra affectionate (whether it’s face-to-face or through texts/emails/etc.)…

…then other times, you’re very friendly BUT platonic towards him.

Just when he thinks, “I’ve got this in the bag”, you come out of nowhere and play mental judo with him.

Oh, how guys love/hate this one!

Trust me, as a guy, I love being TEASED.

Bear in mind however, he needs to know he’s still in the game and that this will eventually lead somewhere.

Keep it light, playful and good-natured so that he sticks around and thinks about you.

#4: Get a life

An awesome one, that is.

I don’t know about other guys, but I’m not sure how to feel about a woman who’s obviously not doing much aside from waiting for me to call her.

Men actually don’t like it when you’re TOO available for them.

It’s kind of like playing chess with someone…

How would you feel if the other person suddenly yelled out, “Checkmate, you got me!” even before you made the first move?

It wouldn’t be any fun, right?

Again, it’s all about CHALLENGE.

And living a happening, interesting life is one way to make your guy feel the bittersweet pain of your absence.

Don’t go on the ol’ social media machine and post pictures of you at a party…

…while you’re spending your free time watching “Sex and the City” reruns in bed with a bag of chips.

(Do women actually do that? If not, just insert your sedentary activity of choice.)

Live your life from a genuine place and invest your time in doing things that help you GROW.

And sometimes, that means you’ll have to hold off on seeing him (which is way different from dropping off the face of the earth) because you’ve already made plans before he asked you.

Women who are totally engaged with their lives effortlessly project a grounded, mature (read: NOT boring), yet fascinating personality.

When he sees how much fun you’re having from doing the things you’re passionate about…

…he’ll want to gatecrash the party and get in on the action!

He’ll be like, “She looks cool. I can totally see myself hanging out with her. Bet she’s amazing in bed, too.”

(Whoops, did I just say that? But it’s true...)

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#5: Positivity breeds positivity

Fun has been a recurring theme in this article, and for good reason.

Men don’t want to be around someone who brings down their energy. We’re driven, competitive, and we like people who lift us up.

And it’s the same with a romantic partner: no one likes a party pooper.

Look, I know you can’t be Pollyanna and spout platitudes of sunshine and happiness all the time. We all have our bad days.

Nevertheless, it’s important to him that you have a generally positive attitude – and not walk around with a dark cloud hanging over your head.

Here are a few questions to ask yourself:

– “Do I find myself complaining a lot? Do I rant on social media every time something bad happens – or comment on every piece of bad news out there?”

– “When I’m with my guy, do I talk crap about my co-workers, relatives and friends?”

– “Do I try to see the best in people and situations? Or do I tend to assume the opposite?”

I’m not saying that you’re a miserable person, but it does help to do a little self-reflection and awareness – especially when you’re around your guy.

#6: Practice radio silence every now and then

Nope, I don’t mean cutting off all contact and see how he reacts.

Playing hard to get to an extent is fine, but it isn’t about manipulating his emotions or making him feel bad.

So all I’m asking is that you don’t broadcast every single thing you’re doing.

He doesn’t need to know what you’re having for lunch, or how Linda from Marketing hogged the floor during the office meeting.

Social networking sites are a bit to blame because it adds to the “Gimme my 15 minutes” culture.

And technology in general is making it way TOO easy for us to bombard other people with the mundane aspects of our lives.

This special guy of yours isn’t your best friend or mother. He’s perfectly fine wondering a little what you’re up to.

In fact, it’s the perfect way to avoid making him feel crowded. Give him the headspace to think about you, rather than trying too hard to insert yourself in his thoughts.

#7: Finish STRONG

Ever heard the expression “stick the landing”?

It’s when an athlete finishes a move in style (like in gymnastics) and strikes a cool pose – often to thunderous applause.

In dating, you can do the same and leave a strong impression in a guy’s mind. That way, he’ll be counting the minutes until he sees you again.

Here are a few ways to do this:

• Don’t let the date go and on. Eventually, the energy level will go down and that’s not the best time to say your goodbyes. Have a set time, and let him know you have to be up early for work tomorrow.

• So, that means you’ll need to make him feel great while he’s with you. Don’t make the conversation all about you, give him a chance to share his stories, and tell your own (positive and funny ones work best).

• Touch his arm, punch him playfully on the shoulder or mess up his hair (if the situation allows it). Physical cues of attraction are key.

After your date, he’ll keep replaying that wonderful experience in his head over and over again.

Remember when Netflix wasn’t a thing yet and you had to wait a whole week to see the next episode?

I kinda miss that, and I actually liked cliffhangers because it gave me something to look forward to.

Plus, it was nice to be able to digest what I just watched. Nowadays, we’re overindulging ourselves by binge-watching the whole thing till our eyes glaze over.

In the same way, you’ve got to pace yourself so he doesn’t get sick of you. That’s the whole point of the game.

But if you’ve been doing most of what we’ve just talked about and he’s STILL pulling away…

…there might be something more serious going on here.

A lot of women struggle with this problem, and they’re often clueless why they can’t stop their man from slipping through their fingers.

However, you don’t have to feel powerless about this situation.

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By Clayton Max, Author of Infatuation Scripts

“A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.” ― Coco Chanel

Whether you’re looking for a long-term partner, or already have one, it pays to have the right habits in a relationship.

The thing about guys is that they don’t always know how to articulate what they want in their woman.

Most men weren’t exactly taught how to express their feelings while growing up. So it can be tricky sometimes for them to let their partner know about their emotional and physical needs.

And this leads to all sorts of misunderstandings and unfulfilled expectations, which can put a wedge between you two.

Luckily, I’m here to give you the inside track to how men think. Drawing from my own experience and from helping my clients, here are the Top 5 Habits That Make Men Crazy About You:

#1: Play Hard to Get

Ok, this might sound like familiar territory, but listen up.

Typically, a lot of women (and men!) try to make someone like them by putting on a detached-but-I-might-be-attracted-to-you kind of act.

Also, these women may wait for an arbitrary amount of time to reply to messages (e.g., a couple of hours, a few days, etc.) to avoid looking desperate. Worse, they’ll pretend they’re busy, hoping it’ll make a guy more interested in them.

But this approach tends to backfire.

It’s confusing – and worse, he’ll eventually see through this stilted act. This, of course, is a huge turn-off.

There’s no problem showing interest in a guy. And there’s no need in this day and age to play silly mind games.

Instead, you can play a different kind of game – one built on authenticity.

Give your guy hints that you like him, and be enthusiastic when you’re together. Experts find that a person starts falling in love with someone once they knew they wanted them.

As for the “playing hard to get” part, that means actually being busy. That’s not the empty kind of busy where you’re at home, scrolling down endlessly on your social media feed.

It’s better to be fully engaged with all the other parts of your life. You’ve got your work, social life, hobbies and other passions that make you well-rounded and happy.

If that makes you unavailable from time to time, that’s a good thing.

Richard Wiseman, author of “59 Seconds: Change Your Life in Under a Minute”, did some research on this.

He found that people who were hard to get gave the impression that they’re a scarce resource. However, they ALSO had to be enthusiastic about the other person to be attractive.

That way, it put the subject in a more balanced and attractive light.

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#2: Rock His World

In a nutshell, you need to generate strong emotions within your guy while he’s with you. He’ll then associate those feelings with you, which naturally creates that spark.

In an MIT study, behavioral researchers found that people have a habit of transferring their feelings from one setting to the next.

What does this mean?

For instance, if you nearly hit another car while driving to work, you’d carry those negative vibes into the office. That previous, unrelated experience would bleed into the rest of your day.

Some call this “emotional misattribution” or “emotional leakage” – this is the human tendency to attach strong feelings to the nearest person, even if they had little to do with it.

Also, it has to do with the fact that being physically aroused can easily translate into a sexual attraction. So, if you can find a way to keep things exciting for him – like doing sports or something physically intensive – then he’ll latch those feelings onto you.

#3: Laugh at His Jokes

Admittedly, a lot of women reacted to this piece of advice with a raised eyebrow.

But hear me out – this could be a game-changer in your relationship.

First of all, you don’t need to be rolling on the floor with tears in your eyes if his jokes bombed.

A polite chuckle is perfectly fine, and that gives him the hint that he’s not funny (i.e. you’re not attracted to him).

But if your funny bone really is tingling from his witty one-liners, then go ahead and laugh.

Studies show that humor is a huge factor in sexual attraction. As you already know, women like guys who are funny because it’s a sign of intelligence (which is an attractive trait).

But recent research done by Westfield State College, University of Western Ontario, and McMaster University state that “men preferred those who were receptive to their own humor, particularly for sexual relationships.”

This seems like it’s not so much about treating a guy’s ego with kid gloves…

…and more to do with a man’s desired to be appreciated by his partner.

Trust me, I know plenty of guys who have appreciation as one of their “must haves” in a relationship. So, appreciating his sense of humor is a good step in that direction.

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#4: Find Strength in Numbers

According to several studies, you can be more attractive by hanging out with your friends.

For instance, there’s research from Tilburg University in the Netherlands and the University of California that both document what’s known as the “cheerleader effect.”

This basically states that someone’s perception of you changes favorable once you’re in a group.

On the surface, you might think it’s because you’ll appear more sociable and friendly. This makes you attractive without looking like you’re trying too hard.

But there’s another angle to it. You see, the human brain has a habit of categorizing individual elements (like shapes, objects and people) into a general group.

This is mostly a hardwired survival trait to not visually focus too hard on one thing – but rather the whole picture. And this instinct spills over into a person’s social life as well.

So in a practical sense, you can set your social media (and online dating) profile picture to a photo featuring you with a group of friends. Just make sure it’s clear who you are in the picture so you don’t get lost in the sea of faces!

If you’re looking to a meet a guy in a bar or a party, make sure to bring your squad along too. Social proofing is a real phenomenon, so use it to your advantage.

#5: Appeal to His Sensual Side

There’s really no surprise here. Any guy who’s interested in women will obviously want physical intimacy in the relationship.

But you’d be surprised – and even downright concerned – how many women are lacking this department.

A lot of them take for granted the power of using their feminine charm to win a guy over.

And no, I’m not telling you to start acting out a scene from an adult film to turn a guy on.

What I am saying is that you should be more aware of a guy’s hot buttons, and learn how to push them.

For instance, women underestimate the power of physical touch.

Most men go their whole lives not knowing the pure pleasure of a validating pat on the back, a hug, or other forms of affection.

Women, on the other hand, tend to experience this on a daily basis.

So using body language is an excellent way to ignite his senses – whether it’s brushing against his arm or leg against yours “accidentally”…

…or putting your hand on his arm for a few precious seconds.

Remember, men love being teased, and the delicious pleasure of the “slow burn.”

And of course, men also appreciate variety when it comes to the main event in bed. Make an effort and take the initiative to spice things up every now and then.

Better yet, you could even go as far as asking him what he wants, then apply it in bed after (with your consent, of course). That would make for an interesting topic, don’t you think?

One more thing – there’s another trait I didn’t mention earlier, but it’s incredibly attractive to men as well.

A study done at Rutgers University found a unique psychological trait in guys that they’ve dubbed as an “emotional tripwire.”

Now, once you understand how this works – and how to use it (which is super easy by the way)…

…your guy will instantly enter a state of intense infatuation.

It’s like a splinter in his mind, and he’ll be incapable of thinking of any other women in a romantic way – except YOU.

There’s a free video presentation that explains this in SHOCKING detail, so make sure you’re sitting down before watching it:

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By Clayton Max, Author of Infatuation Scripts

Do you find yourself falling hard for that special guy? Is your heart just full of love and affection for him, but don’t know how to show it?

Maybe you’re worried that he might find you too intense and back off, or you’re worried that he might fall into someone else’s arms.

Whatever the case may be, I got 5 awesome ways to make him feel an intense, burning desire for you.

#1. Work Your Way Into His Life

Most women assume that guys want to sleep with a girl as fast as they can. But in my own experience, I found that you’re more likely to pull him in by being friends with him.

I know that sounds scary because this might get you banished into the Friend Zone. But the idea here is to not hop in the sack with him right away and draw it out a bit.

Believe it or not, many guys love the sweet torture of a “slow burn”.

If you play it right, you can keep up this dance until his desire reaches a point where he can’t stand being ‘just friends’ with you.

He’ll want to take things to the next level.

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#2. Win Him Over With Words

A good relationship happens when a couple has the habit of communicating in a gentle, loving way.

Of course, in the real world, this isn’t always the case, especially when they get into a disagreement.

But for the most part, a relationship thrives when there are more words of affirmation than hostility or criticism.

That’s why a guy is more likely to respond positively to a woman who recognizes his strengths and celebrates them through words of affirmation.

For example, you can compliment him on how great he looks on his new shirt, or even just the way he remembers all that Star Wars trivia.

Whatever qualities that you love about him, make sure to acknowledge that and point it out to him.

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#3. Use The Right Body Language

Have you ever noticed how some couples just seem to complement each other? I’m talking about the way they finish each other’s sentences or already know what the other is thinking without saying a single word.

You can see this common quality in happy couples, whether it’s your best friend and her husband or your 90-year old grandparents’. They just seem to connect on a deep, unspoken level.

In order to emulate that quality and set the stage for you and your guy, you can start with body language.

Of course, a long-term relationship requires you to develop a bond through shared experiences and the like. But matching his facial expressions, for instance, is a great way to lay down the foundations.

For example, if you’re out on a date with him and he’s having a good time, he’s likely to have a happy, satisfied expression on his gorgeous face.

What you can do is match the brightness of his smile and instantly, that will allow you to create an emotional connection with him. It’s nothing short of magical, and it will certainly feel that way.

When you start doing these things today, you can start putting your relationship on a better path. Treat these as habits you can adopt into your daily routine, like making deposits in a bank.

Pretty soon, your relationship will be rich with love and you’ll have plenty of it to go around for years to come.

But did you know that you can also say a few select phrases to a guy and make him instantly fall in love with you even HARDER? It sounds crazy, but there’s a combination of words that can literally change a man’s emotional state and generate red-hot feelings of passion for you.

The truth is that it’s based on an obscure psychological principle. Any woman can apply this through a combination of certain words that will create a powerful effect on the way he thinks about you.

It’s almost like re-wiring his brain so that he can’t imagine spending the rest of his life with anyone else but you. Honestly, it’s a level of devotion that’s almost scary.

If you’re ready for this kind of commitment, however, you can learn the secrets to this technique right here:

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